It was my privilege to be for a time Joyce's daughter-in-law. I have many treasured memories from that era. I remember a loving, caring , supportive woman who neither judged nor criticised. She leapt into action one time becoming the 5th emergency service whisking me promptly off to her hairdressers, after I had tried to dye my hair but had just ended up looking like a belisha beacon; Joyce to the rescue ! She became my oracle when I stayed with them both during my final teaching practice, giving me sound advice when incurring difficulties with a member of staff . Her advice was invaluable. Her advice always worked out! Wise woman! I remember Joyce as someone you could always rely on and trust , who was there for you whenever needed. I recall how she could gather ' the Gill clan ' together with her huge Sunday roasts! I also recall the times we played mahjong until the early hours of the morning; she was tireless! Most of all, I remember the magic relationship Joyce shared with Eddie; a perfect fit. . . a perfect team. I will always treasure the many memories I have of her. Sleep easy Joyce, All my love, Linda

Joyce had attended Kings Worthy Day Centre for just over 4 years and in that time she has made us laugh and cry. As her abilities decreased we where still able to make her laugh, usually at the jokes that were a little rude!! She had such a good sense of right till the end. Joyce and Sandra a member of staff had a great rapport with each other and spent time each week with Sandra chatting and making Joyce smile. All of us here at the centre feel privileged to have had this opportunity to spend time with Joyce and we will all miss her very much. from Wendy and the team.

I first met Joyce at West Downs School she was the secretary and I was the caterer, many the time I took refuge in Joyce,s office to share a rant and receive empathy. The next time we were reunited at Kings Worthy Day Centre, (which I managed )when she visited with Adrian, although by then Joyce,s short time memory was effected by her illness I know that we still connected through our shared work experience, although I retired 2 years ago I have seen Joyce on my visits & that special smile was still there. Rest in peace my friend the struggle has ended. Dawn.